Do you all know what are double sided people? double sided life? It means that people with two different personality. Let's call it this way, when party X is with you, it acts with you, chat with you, laugh with you. When they decided not to go out with you, they will find the other group of people, party X will then criticize you, gossip about you. This is what double sided people do. You may not understand what am i saying, i will give you an example. This incident happened quite sometime ago. There were 3 groups of people, let's named them A, B & C. These 3 groups of people were gossiping about this person(D). So, one fine day, A came and talk to me, told me about all the bad things that D did to HIM/HER, so i listened and try to analyze the situation for for A. B came and talked to me on the same person, D. B told me that "blah blah blah blah blah", i did the same thing, analyze it and B don't really listen because B is quite angry. Then came C, C told me what D did and told me that D is an idiot, loser blah blah blah blah blah. The very next day, A,B&C still continues and chat with D, laugh with D, play with D. They totally forgotten what they had told me the day before, this is what i call double sided people, maybe in your life you may meet this type of people, talk to him, consult them. It is very tiring to put on a mask everyday, living a life with a poker face. Why not we treat others like how we treat ourselves? We are born into this world not to quarrel with people but to know each others, make friends. We may quarrel once but that does not mean we can't be friends. Friends do bicker at times because we had different perspectives in things, in life. Double sided people are the person we need to put our guards on, they may seem harmless but they are NOT! Certainly, some people had no choice but to put on a mask because of the friends that they had, choose the right type of friend, make the right decision, every decision you make, you had to face the music, ALONE. Honestly speaking, i do have friends who had poker faces, they are close to me because they want to know what others said to me. Life can be simple, can be fun. Life is like a cycle, if you treat people well, people will treat you well, likewise, if you mistreat people, you can't blame them for not treating you good. You are your own mirror, do what you think it's good for you, don't let others manipulate you, stay focused and no harm will come to you. Be smart in choosing the kind of friends that you are having now, at this point, at our age, we may not see the point of choosing the right friends, when you have grown up, have your own family, own children, you then will realize how hurting is what your own children say NO to you, rebel against you. Trust me, you won't like that feeling. It's ain't too late to repent, ain't to late to turn back, we do, and always have a choice, it's just whether you want to use it or throw it. Cherish the chance you have because you may not be given a second chance :)

8/06/2010 08:43:00 PM,
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